When It’s Time to Move in Together
Your not teenagers anymore. You have a life of your own and now you may be ready to make the move together. Here are some signs that you’re ready to do it!
The fact that you feel nervous is a light bulb that your not immature anymore. You know it’s a huge decision to make that will affect your life. If you’re not nervous at all, your still in fantasy movie mode instead of what’s reality.
YOU DON’T FEEL THE PRESSURE
If you feel that everyone is pressuring you or you feel the pressure yourself, maybe it’s a good idea to wait. You don’t want to make a huge decison under pressure because your mindset is not in order.
YOU’RE AFRAID TO GIVE UP WHAT YOU HAVE
You’re ready when you already have an awesome life now. He or she shouldn’t complete you, rather he or she should make your life even more fantastic! A complement to each other. You should feel that you scored!
YOU’RE NOT RENTING YOUR BUYING
If you just want to move in together because you want to avoid the marriage talk, then think twice. Making the decision of being together should lead to thinking of buying this person. Not just renting it out. If you’re still not sure, better to just keep dating.
YOU SURVIVED A MAJOR DISAGREEMENT
You had a huge argument that almost seemed like it was the end. However, you guys managed to survive and get it past you. This makes your realtionship stronger and real. You will need those skills especially if you guys decide to be together full-time.
If you already had that talk of what we are, then your relationship is defined. You don’t want to get into a deeper relationship if you guys have not talked about if you guys are legit.
YOU ENJOYED TRAVELLING TOGETHER
Travelling together is an eye opener to know to either break it or to see if you made it. Taking a vacation together and spending all the time together will be an eye opener if you actually enjoy each other’s company. It’s like a mini-living experience together.
YOU DON’T IGNORE PROBLEMS
If you recognize the same issues that come up and actually sit down to talk about them, then your ready. If you just ignore them, things will just get worse once together.
IT’S NOT ABOUT THE MONEY, MONEY, MONEY
Yes, you will be saving on one less rent to pay. However, if that is your main reason, don’t do it. You have to be confident that this decision has nothing to do with your finances.
LET’S DO IT!
These are just a few signs that can help you decide. If your confident it’s a YES, two are better than one. One can always lift the other who’s down and can keep you warm at night! Congratulations.